Parenting the Now Generation

Navigating Puberty and Sexuality: Conversations with Dr. Denson

Oct 20, 2025 • 40 min 5 sec

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How can parents effectively guide their children through the complexities of puberty and sexuality in today’s hypersexualized world?

Dr. Allison Denson emphasizes the importance of initiating awkward yet necessary conversations about sex with kids as early as fourth or fifth grade. By providing clear information and framing the dialogue around biblical teachings, parents can counteract the misinformation prevalent in society. Dr. Denson advocates for continuous dialogue, offering grace and understanding, especially about the challenges youth face with exposure to inappropriate content.

Key Takeaways

1. It’s crucial to begin conversations about body changes and sexuality with children before they reach puberty, around fourth or fifth grade, to help them understand their development and reduce anxiety about their changing bodies. Early conversations set a foundation for openness and trust.

2. Integrating biological facts about body anatomy and changes with biblical teachings provides a holistic view that helps children understand the natural and spiritual aspects of their bodies. This approach demystifies the subject and aligns it with faith-based values.

3. The pervasive influence of a hypersexualized culture and media necessitates that parents actively engage in discussing sexuality from a healthy perspective to counteract misinformation and harmful messages children might receive externally.

4. It’s important for parents to discuss the consequences of using pornography and other related temptations, as well as to offer grace and understanding. Redemption and support from the church and community through prayer, counseling, and accountability can help children navigate these challenges.

5. Sexuality is not a one-time talk but a series of ongoing conversations. Parents should create a safe space for discussion, emphasizing that they are supportive resources for their children, while also engaging in broader community resources for education and support.