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98 – 3 Points to Help You Beat the Comparison Trap

Sep 11, 2023 • 12 min 54 sec

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Have you ever experienced how money topics can lead you down a treacherous path of comparison?

In this episode, I’m delving deep into this very question. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of Jesus in Mark 9:33-37, I explore how shifting our mindset and heart can combat and beat the comparison trap. So, if you’ve ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of comparison, come join me as we discover a unique transformative power available to each of us in our stewardship journey.

In this episode, John discusses:

  • Exploring the pitfalls of financial comparison and how to avoid them
  • The dangers of comparing yourself to others in money matters and how to break free from the trap
  • How Jesus’ teachings on humility and servanthood can be a blueprint for wise financial stewardship
  • How focusing on serving others can shift your financial perspective

Key Takeaways:

  • Embrace a mindset of service inspired by the teachings of Jesus to break free from the destructive cycle of comparison and find true fulfillment.
  • Comparison can distort reality, but adopting the habits of Jesus, centered on selflessness and service, offers a blueprint for spiritual growth that transcends wealth and possessions.
  • To escape the comparison trap, become a servant leader in your relationships and endeavors, shifting your focus from self to the needs of others and discovering the joy of generosity.
  • Let comparison be a catalyst for humility and generosity, redirecting your attention outward to serve others and strengthening your connection to God, as demonstrated by Jesus’ selfless example.

“Whenever you feel any type of comparison sneaking in, whether it’s a comparison with someone else about who’s the greatest, just like we heard in Mark 9 between the disciples, or it is a comparison around money or wealth and possessions, whenever you feel comparison sneaking in, my prayer is that you will remember this episode and let comparison be a catalyst that instead of letting comparison take you inward to selfishness and being envious, that it’s a catalyst that turns you outward to be generous and to be humble as you can serve others.”

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Let’s continue the conversation!


Connect to Smarter Stewardship at https://smarterstewardship.com/ and gain access to resources that will help you stay in the loop for resources that will actively help you shape your financial future.

If you’re interested in growing in your faith, wealth, and life, visit https://changeforyourdollar.com/ for all the tools you need from coaching and speaking to my latest book, He Spends, She Spends!

If this blessed you today, please Subscribe, Leave a Review, and Share with someone who you believe will benefit from this message!

Contact John:
Website: https://changeforyourdollar.com/
Website: https://smarterstewarship.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smarterstewardship
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smarterstewardship

Have you ever experienced how money topics can lead you down a treacherous path of comparison?

In this episode, I’m delving deep into this very question. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of Jesus in Mark 9:33-37, I explore how shifting our mindset and heart can combat and beat the comparison trap. So, if you’ve ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of comparison, come join me as we discover a unique transformative power available to each of us in our stewardship journey.

In this episode, John discusses:

  • Exploring the pitfalls of financial comparison and how to avoid them
  • The dangers of comparing yourself to others in money matters and how to break free from the trap
  • How Jesus’ teachings on humility and servanthood can be a blueprint for wise financial stewardship
  • How focusing on serving others can shift your financial perspective

Key Takeaways:

  • Embrace a mindset of service inspired by the teachings of Jesus to break free from the destructive cycle of comparison and find true fulfillment.
  • Comparison can distort reality, but adopting the habits of Jesus, centered on selflessness and service, offers a blueprint for spiritual growth that transcends wealth and possessions.
  • To escape the comparison trap, become a servant leader in your relationships and endeavors, shifting your focus from self to the needs of others and discovering the joy of generosity.
  • Let comparison be a catalyst for humility and generosity, redirecting your attention outward to serve others and strengthening your connection to God, as demonstrated by Jesus’ selfless example.

“Whenever you feel any type of comparison sneaking in, whether it’s a comparison with someone else about who’s the greatest, just like we heard in Mark 9 between the disciples, or it is a comparison around money or wealth and possessions, whenever you feel comparison sneaking in, my prayer is that you will remember this episode and let comparison be a catalyst that instead of letting comparison take you inward to selfishness and being envious, that it’s a catalyst that turns you outward to be generous and to be humble as you can serve others.”

Additional resources:


Let’s continue the conversation!


Connect to Smarter Stewardship at https://smarterstewardship.com/ and gain access to resources that will help you stay in the loop for resources that will actively help you shape your financial future.

If you’re interested in growing in your faith, wealth, and life, visit https://changeforyourdollar.com/ for all the tools you need from coaching and speaking to my latest book, He Spends, She Spends!

If this blessed you today, please Subscribe, Leave a Review, and Share with someone who you believe will benefit from this message!

Contact John:
Website: https://changeforyourdollar.com/
Website: https://smarterstewarship.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smarterstewardship
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smarterstewardship

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